"He is going to be a beautiful boy"
Greth Liseth was devastated when her son, Erick Manuel was born. She had never seen anything like a cleft lip or cleft palate, and nobody could explain why her "Manuelito" was born like that. She couldn’t breastfeed him, and she felt so helpless that she couldn’t feel love for her child.
Manuelito's cleft conditions made it difficult for his mother to care for him. Greth Liseth is a mother to five children. Her husband left her; she raises her children alone. The 34-year-old strives to care for her family, but life is hard in their home on the dusty, gravel road that lines the countryside of Olancho in Honduras.
Greth Liseth wakes up at 5 a.m. each morning to prepare breakfast for her children before they go to school. She then goes to work as a cook in a private home. Her oldest daughter, who is 14 years old, stays home to take care of little Manuelito. Greth Liseth earns 1,000 lempiras each month — approximately $44 — which is never enough to buy groceries for her children. She must borrow money to survive.
When Manuelito was born six months ago, she felt overwhelmingly burdened, desparate and lonely. People turned to superstition and blamed Greth Listeth for Manuelito's condition, saying she had watched too many lunar eclipses. One woman told her that her son was a monster, and his deformities were her fault.
“But the doctors said I shouldn’t worry too much since they know a person that could help. His name is Don Alex Guerrero and they gave me his number,” Greth Liseth said.
Don Alex with Greth Liseth and her family
Alex, or Don Alex as he is called by everyone he meets or helps — the use of the honorific Don conveys respect for that person - is a father to four children. His youngest son, César, was born with a cleft lip and cleft palate three years ago. He remembers how he and his wife, Adilia, experienced the most difficult time of their lives trying to find help for their son. No doctors had advice for them when César was born, and he almost died of malnutrition. Fortunately, they found Operation Smile’s care centre in Tegucigalpa where they finally received the free surgery that saved their son’s life. They have since committed themselves to helping other families in their region. Greth Liseth’s family is one of them.
Don Alex holds of photo of his son César as a baby
“Don Alex found me at the bus station when I had just left the hospital. I didn’t know how to feed my son. Don Alex told me to stay there. He left and came back with formula, drove me home and taught me how to feed my son,” Greth Liseth said.
Don Alex also invited her to his house to meet César — that was the moment when Greth Liseth felt hope return to her life. “I was so happy when I met his child because he looks normal, without any problems, and I know that with the will of God, my son is going to be beautiful and healthy.”
Don Alex with his wife and son, César, who had successfully received treatment for his cleft condition years earlier
Greth Liseth arrived to the Operation Smile medical mission in Tegucigalpa’s Hospital San Felipe in the hope that her son would receive surgery. Don Alex brought her and 18 other children in need of surgery and their parents there. Before this trip, Don Alex escorted Greth Liseth four times to Operation Smile’s care cenre, which is only steps away from Hospital San Felipe. The medical staff at the center provided Greth Liseth with instructions and the formula her son needed to gain enough weight for the surgery.
Don Alex poses with Greth Liseth, Manuelito and other patients he has brought to Tegucigalpa for cleft care
Greth Liseth could have neither afforded the bus ride to the city, nor would she have dared to go there alone without the help of Don Alex. Without him, she would not have found Operation Smile and Manuelito would not have received one of the 150 surgeries peformed on children like him during this medical mission.
Greth Liseth and other mothers of Operation Smile patients learn more about their children's upcoming cleft surgeries
Greth Liseth feels confident about her son’s future now. “He is going to be a beautiful boy,” she said. “He already has many ‘girlfriends’ at the center. The female staff love him and play with him every time I go there,” she said with a smile. Beyond that, she now loves her son deeply. Her feelings of loneliness and despair have disappeared.
Months after surgery, Manuelito now has a beautiful smile
“I want to thank Operation Smile, because if it wasn’t for them, my child wouldn’t be able to have surgery,” she said. “I know that everything is going to be fine if we have faith in God, and I want to thank the staff and Don Alex for all the support they have given me.”